
It’s a funny thing when you stop and think about it; our food choices and how they effect us and those around us. The spark for this article was a friend conveying her concern to another friend of mine. It was all third hand but didn’t make it any less real for me. I am sure if you have been a raw foodie for a while it is something you have dealt with personally. For me, the instance that I first think of is my 82 year old neighbor telling me that since I was vegetarian I was going to get Leukemia. Yep, that’s what she told me; in no uncertain terms mind you. For my friend it was that she would get Lymes dis-ease being holistic (she’s raw and holistically minded but makes conscious/informed choices). Obviously neither of these things are true but I am sure there are a number of you out there who are raw, or are just vegetarian/vegan that have gotten a similar response.
Well why do we do it then? I don’t know about you, but I do it for my health. Before going raw nothing else worked for my health. But then again, I will be the first to admit that when explaining my health choices to your average person, I don’t tell them I am raw and I do tell them that I am “vegan, for health reasons.” I just don’t want to get into it. When I was green to this, I got looks and comments from family and friends and I just don’t want to do it anymore. It’s not worth my time or energy to be perfectly honest. And, I really just don’t get why it effects them?! It’s my health and my choices, why do they care?!
Why DO they care? Well there could be a number of reasons. I have read a couple articles that state that Americans (I’m from the US so this is a logical leap for me…I am not familiar with the statistics for other countries) think the have good nutrition knowledge overall. This seems to hold true when I am talking to almost anyone – whether I feel their knowledge is good or not. We are talking about the average Jo(anne). That person you see on the street scarfing down a super sized fast food meal. Yep, chances are, if you ask them they will tell you they have a good grasp of nutrition. I don’t know about you, but I have been reading labels for at least 2 years religiously (and make the choice whether or not to eat something based primarily on the ingredients) and have been reading about nutrition for nearly 4 years. I have taken a few nutrition courses for animals (and although not the same, still applicable) and have personally read more articles and books then most people I know. But, I love nutrition! It fascinates me. So I don’t consider myself the average Jo(anne). My grandmother however has never had any interest in nutrition but has always fed her family very well when making stuff at home. I grew up with home made breads, fresh garden produce and home canned vegetables. Yes she used the more mainstream methods and ingredients, but it was home made which in my mind makes it leaps and bounds better then the fast food options out there or the microwave meals. I can also discuss my health choices with her in an intelligent manner without feeling like I am being judged or am going to hear some crazy bastardization of some health statistic that’s out there.
What I know. I know that people when offering up these rediculious theory’s aren’t doing it out of malace. In most case it’s lack of knowledge or lack of desire for that specific knowledge. There is a lot of truth to “ignorance is bliss,” those of you that have seen the Matrix and have taken the blue pill (I think that’s right color pill that changed his life…it’s been a while) know what I mean. Start doing your own research and gaining your own knowledge and opinions on things and your whole outlook/life can change dramatically. But it takes a lot of work and a lot of people aren’t ready for that part of their path yet (and may never be).
My answer to this? Well I don’t really have an answer per-se. I just trust my intuition. If I feel like I can talk to someone about the subject of health and my choices (or whatever else it may be) then I will talk to them. If I don’t feel as though I will be able to have an intelligent conversation with someone, I don’t bother. My time isn’t worth the frustration (and usually shock). A prime example is my 82 year old neighbor. We’ve been living here for almost a year and my husband hasn’t shared that he’s vegetarian with her and I haven’t gone any more into it. In her eyes I’m vegetarian (which means she brings us things like corn meal flap jacks and cookies and moon pies and stuff – so I can eat them too). She’s a sweet lady but really, it’s not worth my time. I can connect with her on other things like gardening or critters or talking about her kids.
The best thing to do in my humble opinion is TRUST YOUR INTUITION/INSTINCTS! Don’t ruin a relationship with someone over your diet choices. In the grand scheme of things, there is nothing that makes your diet any better or worse then anyone elses (healthier more then likely, but you’ve made it work for you, they do what works best for them). Everyone has their own path. My sister taught me a valuable lesson here. As upset and as hurt as I was at the time, she was a huge help! I can now talk to my sister about some stuff, but trust that she is going to make the best decisions for her and that me pushing my values on her isn’t going to get either of us anywhere! She is a very intelligent woman and on her own path. She doesn’t need me trying to drive my views and ideals down her throat! So thank you lil sis!
I guess I am off for now! Off to the market! Until next time…
xo
Filed under: Food, Health, Living Foods, Nutrtion, Raw Food, Vegan, Vegetarian | Tagged: Food, Health, insight, Living Foods, Nutrition, Rambling, Raw Food, Vegan | Leave a Comment »






